TUSB8041: How to programme I2C EEPROM by TUSB8041A

Part Number:TUSB8041

Hi Guys

Our customer want to use the Suspend mode when device sleep because of low power requirement.

I can see the F0h bit4  stsOutputEn=1 control suspend status. But we need I2C EEPROM to set it.  

So my question: how to programming the EEPROM by following our method to set the TUSB8041 to Suspend mode?

Another one point here, 8.4.1 says "The external interface is enabled when both the SCL/SMBCLK and SDA/SMBDAT pins are pulled up to 3.3 V at the de-assertion of reset." so how to reset the device actively?  I only find the reset by datasheet: But we need to control the reset signal actively. So how to realize it?

Thanks

-Pengfei